Reflections on modern intimacy, emotional intelligence, and the path to deep connection.
TL;DR — The Direct Answer Most people assume an AI matchmaker works by finding your best match. In practice, it works mostly by elimination. A modern curati...
Read StoryTL;DR — The Direct Answer Two to three people at once, and closer to two if what you actually want is a relationship. That is the honest answer for 2026. At...
Read StoryTL;DR — The Direct Answer Go alone. For most people in 2026, showing up solo to a curated, activity-based singles event leads to more real conversations tha...
Read StoryTL;DR — The Direct Answer Send a short, clear message within 24 to 48 hours. Thank them, say plainly that you did not feel a romantic match, and do not leav...
Read StoryTL;DR — The Direct Answer Most singles events in the United States cost between $20 and $50 per ticket in 2026. Standard speed dating clusters in the $20 to...
Read StoryTL;DR — The Direct Answer Yes, AI matchmaking can be biased, and the bias almost always enters in one of three places: the data the model learns from, the f...
Read StoryTL;DR — The Direct Answer Yes. Past a fairly small number, more matches make dating harder, not easier. Choice overload research consistently shows that whe...
Read StoryTL;DR — The Direct Answer One. Run one dating app at a time, and pair it with one offline channel where you actually meet people. Running three or four at o...
Read StoryTL;DR — The Direct Answer Building a guest list is a different problem from picking a match. When an AI matchmaker decides who gets invited to the same sing...
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